Also: you might not be seeing the REAL look and feel. The current Default theme is NOT our theme. It's just there. See Bottom left of this page.. where it says Default theme.. Click that and choose xenFracture Light on the style chooser. That's the default theme we're working on.. do that and see the difference on this page itself :)
i am on xenFracture light FLUID :) by default....The interface is very similar to FB, so i can say you are not at all just messing around :P